Post Birth Expectations

Post birth experiences will be different for everyone but I just want to help you gain an expectation of what things are like after your baby arrives!

I have had four babies all four were born vaginally only one with no pain medication, so I will share what my own experiences were like. First it was nice to not have an epidural because soon after giving birth I was able to get up and walk to the bathroom and even shower off, though I didn’t desire to do much of anything but sleep! The moments after birth are fleeting but also unforgettable. I recommend you cherish that hour post birth bonding with your new baby as well as your spouse. The time of quiet and getting to know each other are something you will never forget. Also, if you are breastfeeding I would let the baby suckle and start working on nursing right away. Don’t expect baby to latch right on and go to town, they are new at this too!

I would focus on resting, sleeping, and being calm. It can feel overwhelming to bring a new baby home to your kids or even if it is your first baby and they are the only one you have to care for. It doesn’t matter how many other people are in the house, bringing home a new child is always a new experience! I recall my husband and other family members helping me so much in those first weeks. I was hardly alone (thank goodness) just getting help with my bath, laundry and groceries and of course with three other kids I needed help with school drop off and pick up as well. I was fortunate and grateful that I had a few weeks to be able to adjust and create a new routine with the new addition!

Never be afraid to accept help from others. You must take the time to heal and bond with your new baby. Also, trust in yourself and your maternal instincts that you can do this and care for your baby! We were created to be able to handle our children and remember God won’t give you more than you can handle! Take it all one day at a time and love on your new baby!

~Brooke Elizabeth